I will raise my hand and say I've had problems with pushbutton starts, (Jeep, BMW, Harley Davidson, and Honda), in the past but am mainly just annoyed at the principle of the thing. Just like an electronic shift transfer case or automatic headlights I get frustrated at an unnecessary complexity for something I've never complained about. Having driven 4x4 vehicles for the past 25 years I have yet to gripe because I had to pull a lever to get in to 4wd. I have, however, had many experiences being frustrated by an electronic transfer case not engaging, especially 4lo, unless the stars were perfectly aligned and I took it out to dinner first. And I have had three failures from electronic transfer cases, (1 jeep 2 fords), which left me stranded.
On top of the added complexity these new technologies tend to add to the price of the vehicle, a hundred here, a hundred there, it adds up. Even though I prefer to be even more analog I bought my 19 specifically because it was the last year before push button starts and the other added electronics.
I feel like myself and OP would be happiest with a 70 series landcruiser while others would be happier with a Lexus 570. I'm just glad we still have some choice to both be happy.