I would pick either Goodyear Fortera SilentArmor or Michelin Crossterrains. I think that the Fortera Tripletred (cousin to SilentArmor) is the only one in your choices to have the snowflake-on-the-mountain symbol.
SilentArmor = stronger than other highway tires (aka more puncture resistant) due to Kevlar layer, very quiet (due to absorbant layer), and has good treadwear rating. I have heard that you do lose about 1 mpg in fuel economy due to heavier weight and more rolling resistance (i think).
Tripletred = for highway performance and has the snowflake symbol for snow use. Excellent on-road handling (best in class?). It's like having a sport tire on SUV. It is not as strong as SilentArmor because it does not have Kevlar layer nor Durawall sidewall. Not sure about fuel economy changes, but it is probably better than SilentArmor.
Michelin CrossTerrains = Proven highway SUV tire. It is like a regular tire...so, it is not as strong as SilentArmor. It is quiet and durable...and has Michelin's excellent (#1 in industry IMHO) reputation. Low rolling resistance and not heavy...so fuel economy should remain the same. Good for light snow only. Good in rain.
My opinion, i would either get Michelin Crossterrain if you are really just staying on-road all the time. If you live in snow climate and travel often in snow, then i would get Tripletred. However, Tripletred is probably the noisiest of the tires i mentioned above. If you want something durable/tough and good for camping and occasional dirt road driving, then i would get SilentArmor.
One tire that i would consider is the Bridgestone Dueler H/L. These are very good highway tires. Good for light snow. It is very similar to Michelin CrossTerrains but a bit cheaper. I would still take CrossTerrains over them because of Michelin's reputation. But, if you can get a good price on the H/L's, then go for it.
I don't think that you should bother with Bridgestone Dueler A/T REVO because of your stated criteria. And if you do want something more aggressive than above tires, but still decent on-road, then i would recommend Goodyear Wrangler SilentArmor. Like all SilentArmor tires, expect a bit worst fuel economy.
Hope this helps.