Help me to understand... guys!

[CGY_LTD_V8]

So to make a long story short, a few days ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years. In the last year, things had deteriorated so much that he would have his friends "keep an eye on me." If I ran into a guy that I knew from school or something and one of his friends happened to see I would get the third degree. He was reading through my emails, my phonebook in my cell, my text messages, etc. I think part of the problem was somewhere along the lines he became so obsessed with his umm *size* and well, I didn't really know what to say so I tried to avoid the topic. It got to the point that I tried whatever I could to avoid sex altogether which is when his suspicions heightened. He would always ask me how I thought he compared to the average guy and so on. How the heck do I know what size the average guy is? its not like I am the town bicycle! This was my first serious long-term relationship. AARRGGHH I am so stressed!

> end rant <

Thanks guys!

~Lauren

 

[toybox]

Wow, he's got issues. Maybe he should go buy a Hummer.

 

[broncosi]

i was thinking the CXT

 

[Mark86]

Wow, this guy seems like a control freak who has an obsession with his male features. You should have told him that you are not the kind of girl who goes looking at this, but you didn't think that it should be THAT small! The relationship would have definitely ended a few months earlier!

 

[sharp4runr]

**Psycho Alert**

LOL, sounds like this isn't a healthy relationship. I've seen enough Jenny Jones and Ricky Lake so I'm an expert

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

HAHAHA I'm not quite at the nasty point of kicking him while he is down. His parents live across the street from my parents (how convenient) so we made a point to leave my truck on the driveway and I used my step-brothers M3 all weekend haha. Even today (its snowing) my step-dad drove the SC to work and told me to use the GS when I go out.

Are all guys to insecure? Not to toot my own horn or anything but even when I was dating guys in high school most of them turned "possessive-insecure" at some point. Its totally wierd, so unsettling.

Maybe I should stay home and watch Oprah and Dr. Phil, they can probably help me! :

 

[toybox]

........(its snowing) .......

Are all guys to insecure? Not to toot my own horn or anything but even when I was dating guys in high school most of them turned "possessive-insecure"

IT"S WHAT!!!!!!! snowing!! god I dread the winter.



And, you must either date the wrong type of guy or your a total hottie and no one wants to let you out of their sight.

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

IT"S WHAT!!!!!!! snowing!! god I dread the winter.



And, you must either date the wrong type of guy or your a total hottie and no one wants to let you out of their sight.

Yuppers, just light snow today so far. I hate winter, its making my mood worse

LMAO too funny. My step-bro thinks I date the wrong guys. He said I've been dating too many white boys haha (my step-bro is 3/4 asian and 1/4 caucasian). He said the caucasian guys seem to have more "issues" lol.

 

[iFORCE]

Yuppers, just light snow today so far. I hate winter, its making my mood worse

LMAO too funny. My step-bro thinks I date the wrong guys. He said I've been dating too many white boys haha (my step-bro is 3/4 asian and 1/4 caucasian). He said the caucasian guys seem to have more "issues" lol.

I read this before I looked out my window. IT'S SNOWING HERE! :bash:

Like someone said above.. I think your (ex)boyfriend is a little obsessive about his manhood. There's ALOT more going on in life then how a guy compares with another guy.

caucasian guys have more issues? haha. I won't say anything about that.. but that's partly because i'm asian.

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

I read this before I looked out my window. IT'S SNOWING HERE! :bash:

Like someone said above.. I think your (ex)boyfriend is a little obsessive about his manhood. There's ALOT more going on in life then how a guy compares with another guy.

caucasian guys have more issues? haha. I won't say anything about that.. but that's partly because i'm asian.

I guess that was just one of his issues, the one that stuck out on my mind the most. I've compiled a list of "red flags" that I should have seen long before. Oh well haha, I decided to use the weekend to close that chapter of my life and starting today (well, maybe tomorrow hehe) I will begin a new one

My step-bro seems to have this idea that his asian friends are a little more stable minded when it comes to girls. I have no idea, he's probably biased but I suppose there is only 1 way to find out

 

[iFORCE]

I guess that was just one of his issues, the one that stuck out on my mind the most. I've compiled a list of "red flags" that I should have seen long before. Oh well haha, I decided to use the weekend to close that chapter of my life and starting today (well, maybe tomorrow hehe) I will begin a new one

My step-bro seems to have this idea that his asian friends are a little more stable minded when it comes to girls. I have no idea, he's probably biased but I suppose there is only 1 way to find out

well... you've realized it now... so... like you said. "close that chapter ... and start a new one.." at least by the end of this week!

mentality will be different between caucasians and asians... its the upbringing. Do you mind if I ask you if your caucasian, asian, or mix?

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

well... you've realized it now... so... like you said. "close that chapter ... and start a new one.." at least by the end of this week!

mentality will be different between caucasians and asians... its the upbringing. Do you mind if I ask you if your caucasian, asian, or mix?

Yeah, things are sinking in and becoming clearer. I am sure I will need time before getting out there again, but time will tell.

I am barely mixed LOL

 

[Thai]

Wow, can i be part of your family?? You guys have a lot of nice cars!! I promise not to be too obsessive with you...i will be more obsessive with your cars!!

Blacks, whites, yellow, orange, pink people will all have some "issues". In other words, there are some good guys and some bad guys of all races.

 

[Thai]

Oh yeah, i am sure all the guys have been thinking about this....

:worthless

(Clarification: picture of you, not your crazy boyfriend.)

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

Wow, can i be part of your family?? You guys have a lot of nice cars!! I promise not to be too obsessive with you...i will be more obsessive with your cars!!

Haha only if you bring the G500 but thanks, my step-dad is proud of his little "collection" as he likes to call it. Yeah, he's a nerd :

Umm I am not quite at the point of needing to post my pic on the 'net, but I will keep it in mind :

 

[Thai]

Umm I am not quite at the point of needing to post my pic on the 'net, but I will keep it in mind :

Damn it! Oh well, i tried....

 

[iFORCE]

Haha only if you bring the G500 but thanks, my step-dad is proud of his little "collection" as he likes to call it. Yeah, he's a nerd :

Umm I am not quite at the point of needing to post my pic on the 'net, but I will keep it in mind :

I'm quite proud of his little collection too! I'd like a ride in the sc430 please.... maybe a drive? I drove a white sc430 before.. but mmmmmm nothing as catchy as a red one.

cheer up! life goes on... no point in dwelling on the past.

 

[CGY_LTD_V8]

I'm quite proud of his little collection too! I'd like a ride in the sc430 please.... maybe a drive? I drove a white sc430 before.. but mmmmmm nothing as catchy as a red one.

cheer up! life goes on... no point in dwelling on the past.

hehe I will make sure to pass that onto him, I am sure he will be pleased! I love driving the SC, but I think the white ones look nicer. Red on a Lexus is a little wierd I find.

Well see Ryan, we do live in the same city afterall

Oh, and I am all cheered up

 

[sharp4runr]

~ Lauren
'04 Natural White 4Runner V8 Limited 4WD
'05 Absolutely Red Lexus SC430
'06 Millenium Silver Lexus RX400h
'06 Onyx Black Lexus GS430 Premium

I want pics of the cars dammit :biggrin2:

:worthless

If you want to pose with them, I think I can get over that lol

 

[GYoter]

Are all guys to insecure? Not to toot my own horn or anything but even when I was dating guys in high school most of them turned "possessive-insecure" at some point. Its totally wierd, so unsettling.

No, all guys arent like that, however, like thai suggested(and you denied), a pic would help us help you determine if its just them being crazy, or if you *inspire* such behavior. heh :