good question on the fluid. im a mobil 1 person so thats probably what it has in it.
ahHEM. its difficult to get into first. THANKS! im going to keep the diagnosis rolling
I am going to start up a hornets nest here but i think the Synthetic fluid is giving your you problem. Only if you Hydraulic system is in good shape and not leaking.
If it was me, Drain the tranny fluid. fill it up with a kerosene or diesel, start it up, Go through all the gears, (don't drive it) to wash out the syncro clutches, drain the kerosene, dry out and fill back up with some GL-5 gear oil.
My theory with synthetic fluid is that it is to slippery and it doesn't let the syncros clutch material grab the opposing cog.
Mobile 1 also has a lot of moly in it and the moly is what adheres to the clutch surfaces. Thus the reason to flush with kerosene.
The gl rating is the pressure rating of the oil. It is not the slipperiness of it. The redline websight says that Synthetic Gear oil in general is too slippery and that they add friction modifiers to make the syncros clutch well in manual trannys. Sounds like they added dirt into the formula to make it less slippier.
The FSM does not specify Gl-4 or GL-5. It says that both is acceptable.
Gl-4 is good for straight gears and GL-5 is good for sliding gears (ring and pinion).
I will be honest and offer that I have never dealt with redline oil. As it is harder to get and a lot more expensive. It might be great oil then again, it could be overly expensive plain oil. I can not offer in solid advice but only my opinion on the matter.