I hear ya, there. I originally wanted the "Rigid Running Boards" option, but it HAS to be from the factory. No dealer in my state was getting one anytime soon with that option in any color. After doing some research, I found there were possibly some factory supply issues with those running boards that were delaying production. My dealer agreed to give me the same pricing on the dealer installed "Trail Edition" running boards, and they look similar enough that I'm not too worried. I figured 5 weeks and slightly different running boards is better than 12 weeks with the possibility of longer.
You're looking for a SW TEP w/KDSS, right? There happens to be one sitting on the lot, here in Tacoma, WA. I'm sure they'd sell it over the phone and arrange shipping.

Also, they have a black one. Had mine not been two weeks away, I would have bought it. I was gentle on the test drive.