It took a couple months, but I was patient and picked up my ORP (just under 8% off msrp). I think I got a fair deal considering the tough market we're in here in SoCal at the moment. I asked for help a couple pages back and didn't really get any replies. So, I'll just tell you what I did and maybe I can be of some help to future buyers.
If you're very specific about what you want, and you want to get a good deal, be prepared to put some time in. If you just stop by your closest local dealer, prepare to end up settling, and paying a bit more. As long as you're happy and they made money, it's all good. I didn't go that route. I've read most of this thread, and most people will claim they got unbelievable deals, a few others fess up and say they probably paid to much but got what hey wanted. I wanted to land somewhere in between.
First of all, decide what you want. Model, color, options etc. Think about what you absolutely need and what you could do without. Personally I wanted an ORP with kdss and moonroof in one particular color. Those are features you can't add or remove. Most of the other options/accessories can be bought later (much cheaper). When you find a candidate, look at the accessories. Did you want all weather mats, or an exhaust tip? Roof cross-bars or $600 running boards? You know you can buy that stuff from most any dealer parts dept for WAY cheaper? Check amazon and ebay. You can get most of this stuff for 20-50% off.
OK, now you know what you want, how do you find it? You can start by searching toyota.com inventory. That'll give you a rough idea what's around your immediate area, but won't specify what dealer has that particular vehicle. Try cars.com or autotrader.com(a little more accurate) and filter down to what you're searching for. You can sort by distance to see what dealers near you have what in stock. Autotrader will add "newly listed" to the most recent additions. Adjust the search distance to as far as you're comfortable traveling. Again, I'm in SoCal, there are dozens of dealers in a small area. When I started my search, I included neighboring states. I concluded it wasn't worth my time and effort to travel out of the area, but if the savings were big enough, I would have. Also watch those Toyota incentives and promotions. Not only do they vary by state, they vary within the state of CA.
Now it's time to open the floodgates. There's a great thread I can't find at the moment. It was on a 4runner or tacoma forum. A guy explained his process of creating new email and phone specifically for communicating with dealers. He explained creating a spreadsheet to organize his correspondence. If I can find it, I'll post it. Basically you wanna create a brand new email address. If you use gmail you can also add a voice # to that account, this way you can field the texts, calls and voicemails. Create a generic form letter and start emailing dealers. Send them to the ones that don't have exactly what you want. Use the "Tell me more" or "Unlock lowest price" link on the dealer website listing. When you make contact, let them know what you want, if they don't have it, can they look at what's coming in and do they expect it any time soon? The one I bought wasn't even on the lot yet, I bought it before it arrived. I had to be patient. Because I bought it before it go to the dealer, they couldn't put anything I didn't want on it.
Soon you'll see that not everything is as it seems. Some dealers won't even have a 4Runner on their lot, but they'll beg you to come in. Others might have a close match, but you go to see it and find $$$ market adjustment added to the msrp. At some point, hopefully, you will be able to find someone that can get you what you want and not play too many games. Try to establish the best price you can before you get there, yet leave the final offer for when you're there to negotiate the details.
Last step, when you want to make the purchase, establish that final price before anything. Know how much you want to pay and don't stray from that. If they don't meet at a deal you're happy with, walk. But don't be unrealistic. Just because some random guy on the internet said he paid $10k under factory invoice, don't expect to get it. Some people like to hit a certain amount under msrp, but I'd rather know the exact out the door price. I've already calculated how much my goal price is saving me. Having a firm OTD price gives them less room to unexpectedly add more to the sale without you realizing. If you like paying $1000 for window tint or $900 for an alarm, go for it. As I said at the beginning of this post, I don't add anything I cant buy later on cheaper. If they want to work it into the deal and they're still able to meet my pricing, that works for me.
Next comes down payment, trade-ins and financing. These are all other areas for the dealer to insert profit into the sale. Before you even go into the dealer, find the best financing you can, then let the dealer try to beat it. If you're gonna trade in, be sure you're getting what you want. Of course they want to make money on that old junker you're bringing in. Don't let them offer you a crazy high amount for your trade if you haven't settled on a final sale price. Last step is the actual purchase. You're in the final round, this is where they try to get you to buy those high profit items. The coatings, warranties, films, protective films, etc etc etc. There's a new one I ran across. It's a device that makes your center brake light flash a few times every time you push the pedal. Gets the person following you to pay more attention. Interesting idea, but not worth $600 to me. I can't help but think this is a $5 circuit that plugs in line with your brake lamp. OF course it's preinstalled, and they won't remove it. So I remove that dealer from my list of places I'd buy from. Anyways, stay strong, don't agree to this stuff. If you've got plenty of cash and wanna make the sales guy fist pump the minute you walk out of the room, more power to you.
One last thing thing I forgot, I'll put a link here at the end. You're looking at toyota.com inventory or maybe autotrader. That'll lead you directly to the dealers website. Sometimes they'll list of the options, sometimes they won't. They generally always have the VIN number. It must be the law or something because I haven't come across a listing that didn't have it. Click the link below and copy the VIN into the spot that says "PASTE_VIN_HERE". You'll be able to see (basically the window sticker) exactly what comes installed before the dealer has their way with it.
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Oh and another last thing, if the dealer website is showing a price/discount that's even lower than MSRP, it's usually too good to be true. The dealers I spoke with that had the most discounted price published on their website, usually had the most ridiculous add $$$ on items. When I finally got a legit quote, it was usually even higher than msrp. If it's too good to be true, it usually is.
Message me if you want to know my experiences with particular dealers.