It's great to see the support for our 4Runners. I'm ok with going to my local MTB trails and seeing it full of 4Runners (usually 5th gens) and Tacomas. I swing by Starbucks every morning and see about 5-6 other 5th gens. Grocery store run? Yup, couple dozen there also. Mostly women driving them. And that's cool with me. Hope they keep buying them and supporting this BOF SUV. The more they sell, the better the 6th gen will be, hopefully.
I do my best to build mine and use mine the way I want and don't worry about anyone else.
In my neighborhood and surrounding area, it seems like all the women drive 4runners or Jeeps. The under 50 men drive Raptors and the 50 and over men drive Corvettes. I keep telling my wife I need a Raptor and she can daily the 4Runner, haha.
Basically, more 4Runners sold the better it is for all of us. Plus, don't you feel good when you park next to a dealer built SR5 and compare it to your personal built 5th Gen? I do.
I see what you're saying, and to an extent, I agree. Same as with a lot of people have been saying, 5th gens have become widely popular in my city. The suburban areas are saturated with them, and I can see why: they look sleek (looks like a combo of a 4th gen body and an FJ body to me), they're passenger/cargo friendly, they have massive mod and off-road potential, and they're super reliable.
Gen 5s fulfill every purpose that the modern SUV does, and they do it with style. It has a widespread appeal that caters to everyone from the most normal suburban sports mom to most obsessed gearhead. For those reasons, it's almost silly to complain about the number seen on the road daily.
So for me personally, I'm tired of seeing them not because I resent that so many people own them but because I'm not a fan of the exterior design, and I have an aversion to new cars in general.
I think the difference is the genuine appreciation, fascination and (for a lot of people here) the obsession that drives enthusiasts towards driving, repairing, and modding 4Rs in the first place. I'm not much of an off-road guy (though I've done light off-road camping in mine countless times), and I'm not interested in modding my '97 because its a 2WD and I don't have enough knowledge OR desire to jump into that world at this point in time. Regardless, I am attached to my 3rd Gen because I always wanted one ever since I rode in my friend's dad's on a road trip, I love the way it looks, and I love how reliable and comfortable it is. It's essentially my gateway into DIY car repair, even though my reasons for buying a 3rd gen are similar to young suburban family buying their 5th gen. I just happened to take my fascination to the next level, and get my hands dirty, not easy when you own a newer and more complex machine.
My only real gripe is when I see people driving around in TRDs with sports packages, off-road tires, and all the custom stuff the dealership offers them, when it looks like they are never going to take it anywhere close to dirt. Seems impractical and waste of resources.