ok guys, I'm happy to report the following: transmission oil CHANGED!, drain and fill, with 4qts Amsoil Torque-Drive Synthetic Transmission Fluid , both differentials and transfer oil, CHANGED! with Amsoil Severe Gear 75w90, driveshafts LUBED!, total cost fluids and some tools i didnt own, less than $250., I went to a transmission repair shop and asked them, how much all of this services would cost me and they wanted $600!!, man i saved some money, i took all seats out before i started and my wife steam vac the carpet and seats while i was working under the truck, so now it's smelling good too!!, next weekend if time allows: sparks, cleaning MAF and throtle and another transmission drain and fill, ( fluid was really dark so i want to do another two to clear it up). Any suggestions on what else to check while i work on the engine?