I'm having a hard time. I put money down on a camper that gross weight is about 4700 pounds. Dry weight is about 3700. The problem is the tongue weight. The dry tongue is 455 lbs. Needless to say going to be easy to go over the limit. Cant find a hitch replacement like previous gens. A reputable welding shop that also does hitches said he would weld the receiver to the cross member instead of relying on the bolts and he would weld a bracket on each side of wear the crossmember meets the frame. I dont want to damage my vehicle or void any warrenties. Please help. Thanks