PedsFlightRN
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Good for you! Now stay on track and hopefully all will work out.
Need relationship advice
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Schooler
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Oh that is quite an interesting question. When my boyfriend was 17, his woman who is now the ex in question was in her 30s. My boyfriend is now 33 so she has got to be at least 50 something close to that. I am 23. So I don't really expect her to be a threat. I just did not like the fact that I was not consulted about the matter first.
It is kind of hard to be assertive when your mate is 10 years older than you and he knows so much more about life and everything. But its all okay now.
It is kind of hard to be assertive when your mate is 10 years older than you and he knows so much more about life and everything. But its all okay now.
momo.75
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I have two thoughts on this. I think he is subconciously using the age difference as a means to keep you at a lower level. Yes he might have those ten years to "know so much more about life and everything", but those 10 years should have taught him how to treat somebody instead of using them as a footstool. I am also offended by his actions being from the south where, I personally take pride, in the way men should treat women with respect. I hope it works out, but honestly think you are in a situation that is not going to correct itself by one conversation, dinner and a back rub. I have known too many girls that have been in a similar, not the same, situation and it never corrected itself, butonly got worse.
"It is hard to see the forrest for the trees".
"It is hard to see the forrest for the trees".
Go and rent a copy of Full Metal Jacket...
watch R. Lee Ermey address his young marine recruits. It kinda sets the tone.....
Your boyfriend is a loser and abuser. Time to tell him to take that crap out of his pie hole and ask what is his f*ckin' malfunction is...
Girl, you need to open up a can of industrial size Whoop-ass on him and set the ground rules.
There are plenty of guys out there who has it together, kind, considerate, hardworking, generous, and good looking. Unfortunately, most of them are gay. The rest are married, but there will always be one lurking around who is not gay or married.
Dump this loser and start anew.
watch R. Lee Ermey address his young marine recruits. It kinda sets the tone.....
Your boyfriend is a loser and abuser. Time to tell him to take that crap out of his pie hole and ask what is his f*ckin' malfunction is...
Girl, you need to open up a can of industrial size Whoop-ass on him and set the ground rules.
There are plenty of guys out there who has it together, kind, considerate, hardworking, generous, and good looking. Unfortunately, most of them are gay. The rest are married, but there will always be one lurking around who is not gay or married.
Dump this loser and start anew.
momo.75
Registered User
Schooler said:
Back in my single days I could easily help you with the first three requests, maybe the 4th, and probably the last. Surprisingly, I had to help a couple of people out of bad roomate situations while in college. None of them were pretty. Those days for me are long gone......thank god.
TranceKrayz
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Schooler said:
hmm.......got a picture?
just kidding!
if you have to hang in there, then be strong for your daughter. good luck in life!
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MaliciousClout
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Lady, all I can tell you is that you need to set some boundries for yourself. If you know he doesn't love you (which if you asked yourself that right now you probably say -no-) then don't waste your life with someone that is addicted to selfishness, that has sprouted to masterbation and all that other sick shit.
If you do not set boundries who will?
If you do not set boundries who will?
