Yea I think I know what you mean, when I slowly press it all the way down versus slamming quickly all the way down I definitely feel the brake assist kick in and "clamp down harder", so to speak (I know this is probably not even close to what's actually going on, but I have no intellectual way to describe it

).
But from reading some of the posts here it sounds like some people appear to be caught off guard not when actually trying to stop quickly in a panic stop situation, but when just partially depressing the brake quickly, if that makes sense?
ie. I want to get on the brake a bit to prepare to slow down, so I press it down half way (but I pressed it too fast to the half way point in a rush). I might be totally off, but it sounds like some are saying that just by pressing it too fast, the brake assist decides to do it's magic and slow the vehicle down rapidly (even though my only intention was to press half way).