It's not an obsession, it was a simple and minor change to how a very few words are used in state matters.
Think about what would happen if gender based language was used in traditionally female jobs. What if elementary school instructors were called teacherwomen or medical professionals were called nursewomen? Make practitioners wouldn't stand for it. Heck, many organizations don't use the word midwife anymore.
If the action tries to redefine things in terms that are incorrect, I have a problem with it. If the language ends up being more accurate for the change, I'm not going to get worked up over it.
Emasculating the word doesn't in any way emasculate the practitioner. If someone thinks it does, they have some insecurities to deal with. Whining about fisher versus fisherman, to me, seems more emasculating than the word change.