[MENTION=120071]mtbtim[/MENTION], these shocks do actually have something you could possibly get a small wrench or locking vice grips onto. And I actually went out and bought a wrench exactly like you suggested to give this method a try but still no love! Damn this has been a huge pain in the ass!
I figured I should probably share my solution with the rest of the forums though. My solution was to order 2x 17mm jam nuts, M10x1.25 (
from fastenal.com), drill out the threads then smash them onto the upper shock mount stud.
First drill out the threads of the jam nut to make it easier to smash the nut down the shaft:
Next step is to thread the jam nut all the way to the bottom of the upper shock mount stud. When its at the end of the threads it should be spinning because the threads on the nut are basically gone. Then use a 1/2" drive socket to smash the nut all the way to the bottom of the stud.
As you smash the nut on to the stud it'll compress the shock and eventually you'll get a few solid whacks. I don't think this is a problem compressing the shock like this but I'd love your feed back.
Once you have that jam nut smashed all the way to the bottom of the shock you can go a head and reinstall it onto the rear end of the vehicle. The trick now is that you can take a pair of locking pliers (or if you have a thin enough 17mm wrench) and put them on the jam nut. There is so much friction from the smashing that the nut is not going to spin with the 20 ft-lbs required to torque down the bolts. If your a super pro and you've got a welder Id suggest tack welding the nut to the stud. But I'm not a super pro and don't have a welder sooo...
This has been a huge pain in the ass and honestly, I'd consider buying different shocks next time. Lucky I did get them installed eventually...
Thanks for all the suggestions.