good to hear Tom stood up I had perfect experience with them, sorry you had a bad first try.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2AUvpvOMsTg
remember just not so long ago when I said don't use that bottle jack to do that bushing removal?
Well a hammer to those ears on drive shaft where the ujoint presses in.... yea those can bend with the hammer method and then your driveshaft is going to be way out. new ujoint or not if the mounting holes that are bored in the shaft ends get out of alignment. bad news.
I'm not saying it can't be done because people do it. I can drive down the road @ 70 mph, a cup of water in my cup holder has no ripples in it. super happy with Toms on that one. pulling that shaft is not hard but its a pain, if you lived down the street I have my old shaft sitting the corner waiting for his chance to get back onto the road. would totally give it to you.
you need to move closer.