BTW S.S. 1.2 and S.S. 7.2 are the same price
OME kit from Toytec is not though...
My thoughts - In today's economy there is no such thing as "extra" funds... Any surplus for me heads directly into the rainy day fund... I see clouds in the distance. But that's a whole 'nother argument there...
For a D.D. rig - If you're wanting "stock ride", don't lift it. That's how you keep the stock ride quality. If you feel that you must because of worn out parts, then do the tall '99 4WD coils and swap out the shocks. Still using factory parts for a vehicle of the same weight, dimensions, uses, etc...
Daily driver / weekend wheeler - My suggestion is OME kit from Toytec, and OME Sport Shocks, carefully research the weight rating for the coil combo you want, and pair it with the gear/armor you want on your ride. If you are keeping the stock bumpers, go with the lightest load bearing coils, may not yeild as much lift, but they'll ride better. And don't justify buying the heavier coils by saying "If I carry this much once, I'll need theses coils", because everyday that you aren't loaded, you'll want to kick yourself for it.
Weekend Warrior / D.D. - SS 1.2 is a great lift. Steve is an awesome vendor and knows what he's talking about. I have his 1.2 kit on my truck, granted my truck sits in the driveway most of the week. I could drive it everyday if I wanted. The LC coils in the rear are tall, and they are soft. Body roll will be multiplied by lifting the truck by any means. You'll be making a vehicle with a high COG, even higher. That's physics (or somethin'...lol). My truck rides like a lifted SUV, not a Cadillac. Off road, it hangs with the best, but there are countless other factors to consider offroad, that's another topic in itself...
Anyways, I hope this helps a little. My suggestion - OME from Toytec. They are regulars in the online Toyota community, frequently post here and on the other boards I'm on, and have always seemed to stand behind their products. I researched for 2-3 years before I pulled the trigger on mine, and for what I need, it's flawless. Let me know if you need to know anything else, I'll be more than happy to help you out.
-- Chris