My 99 4runner had a leaky radiator and fluid got into the tranny. Had the radiator replaced and the tranny flushed 5 times. I found out about the leak because when I would stop (at a light or just to turn) it would slip into "neutral" and there would be a very large slam as the tranny would engage. Unfortunately, the repairs didn't help any. Honestly, I don't know if the leak was the cause of problem (with seals maybe damaged). But it sounds like other people have had this problem too without the radiator trouble. Any suggestions? The toyota dealer had no ideas, and the transmission specialist's tests all showed the tranny was tine.