You know, not to be a negative Nancy, but there are many threads of EXACTLY this topic, what oil do you use and which is the best... and they are probably one of the most worthless topics outside of "what lift should I get?"
Do your own research on motor oil and decide what you are comfortable with. Lots of guys here will give you different opinions about brands, non-manufacturer-recommended viscosities, etc. You will hear advantages and disadvantages to each one. The reality is that random people on the internet (including Bob is the oil guy, dealer mechanics, etc.) will give you contradictory opinions.
There are so many factors affecting motor oil, that you can't satisfy all of them with one oil (i.e. there is no single BEST oil out there), and that's why you need to make the decision for yourself. But to be honest, the safest thing you can do is just follow the manufacturer recommendation, cause like it or not, the guys that spec'd the oil in the first place probably know way more about these specific engines than anyone here. That said, the engine will probably tolerate lots of other types/viscosities as well. You could use non-optimal oil, and you would never know it wasn't the best, cause the engine can handle it well enough.
Dino OE viscosity oil changed regularly/properly will let your engine last forever, or at least something else will kill it long before the oil does, so don't stress about which oil you use. Just be sure you are changing regularly.