i have a 01 4runner with 125,000 miles which i got 2 years ago when i turned 17. I love the handling, but don't like the stiffness. I feel every bump in the road. When I went offroad, it was annoying as well. If i go over a speed bump just a little too fast, the whole car shudders and things in the car get rearranged. I dont want to lift it, i just want a smooth ride. i dont know what to buy...im new to all of this..