I have the tan (don't remember which color it is called) with my white T4R. I looked pretty hard to find it. As for wear, after about 45,000 miles with kids it looks like new. I had a couple of nasty spills on the back seat and took it to a detailer and he cleaned it with this really smelly stuff in about a minute. Looks like nothing ever happened and it aired out in less than a day. As for why I chose the color, the dark gray is almost black and, in my opinion, it just didnt have any pizzaz. It made the interior look dull and monochomatic. I like the contrast with the black on the doors and the dash combined with the tan a bit lower all around. To each there own, I jsut think the tan looks much better.