jetboy1975 said:
[Any receiver that's on the T4R should have a min rating of 500/5000lbs or greater and it'll work with a WDH. Your towed load is well below that on both counts. ]
Not true. You need to be careful with this. The standard OEM hitches are rated for 500/5000lbs but are NOT to be used with a WDH. In order to use a WDH set-up on the T4R you need the upgraded hitch which is mounted to the frame rails not just the cross member like the standard hitch. Lighter trailers it's probably not a problem but the loading and tension can bend or twist the cross member and it is not repairable.
I'm in this position now. Towing a 20 foot hybrid approx 3500lbs empty. Several Toyota dealers and forums told me not to use WDH and shouldn't need it with my trailer weight, but I want it for comfort and sway control. Now trying to find the best one.
I agree with jetboy1975. One should not mix a weight distributing hitch on a trailer with a weight carrying hitch receiver on a 4Runner.
If one looks at the 2004 4Runner Owner's manual it appears Toyota agrees as well.
On page 307 of the manual there is a Notice where Toyota states:
"Do not install weight distributing hitch to weight carrying hitch receiver because it will be damaged your vehicle".
FYI, I typed the quote exactly as it appears. Looks like the translation from Japanese needs a little work.
AFAIK, the weight carrying hitch receiver and the weight distributing hitch receiver have different designs, mounting points and hardware.
That is most likely why Toyota recommends that a 4Runner owner should not mix the two different types of hitches and hitch receivers.
jetboy1975, if you are more comfortable using a WD hitch with sway control and your 4Runner has the WD hitch receiver I say go for it.
If your trailer is large enough to be buffeted by wind or by passing tractor trailers sway control is a very good investment.
Unless, you like "White Knuckle" Towing trips without sway control.
When I purchased my 20 ft enclosed car trailer (aka the big brick). I purchased the WD Hitch with sway control.
I have towed the "big brick" in conditions where I faced 40-50 mph head, cross and tail winds.
Heck, just this morning I towed the trailer empty (with the sway bars on) in 30 mph winds with gusts to 50 mph.
Once you get above a certain size and/or weight trailer, a WD hitch, WD hitch Receiver and Sway Control make all the difference in the world.
Here is a link to the setup I use....
http://www.reese-hitches.com/produc...ribution_Trunnion_Bar_Kitwith_Hitch_Bar,66084