forgive me for making this complicated, but I started with wheels and it made the rest of my build more difficult. part of which is due to having a 4th gen, though.
taking a look at your future mod list, you may want to hold off on wheels until you are done with the lift and other mods... my first question to you is what size tire do you want to run? from there you can decide how much lift, wheel width/offset and gears (if nec.) you will need. if, for example, you are going to run 33x12.50's then you will need a wider wheel than the offerings you listed.
If I had to choose from the choices provided, definitely the FJ-TRD wheels