yeah, i agree with the statement do what you can with what you got, that's always good advice! that said though, i think you'd better off getting tires now as that sounds like it's almost a safety issue, and really it is, the only part of your truck that actually touches the road is the tires, very important.....
so go that route and hit up some junk yards and CL for actual life parts.....i don't think anyone is telling you to run out and buy OME 89x's , i think they are saying you can piece a good lift together for cheap and gave you some examples , i'm in the school of thought that i don't like doing the same work and paying for the same parts twice, if your broke why dump a couple hundred into some cheap shocks and a spacer lift and then planning on a toytech ultimate in a bit anyways, all your doing is adding on to the cost of the future lift, and really to me it doesn't sound like you even need that (toytech lift)
for your uses, so why not just get the tires now, sit back and keep an eye on Craigs list for the trd shocks and springs and some lc stuff and just be done with it.....trd parts are actually quite common as people buy them and then lift them and then sale the stockers , which is good for us as it is a mild lift and kind of sounds like what your after......
again though, nothing wrong with a spacer lift if just want a better look and are happy with the current ride, go for it, but don't plan on spending money on this , then ripping it out and replacing with something else , that's a waste of your time and money.. just do it right the first time around if that's all your after , otherwise just hold on to your hat give it a few months on your new tires and pick up piece by piece $50 at a time till you have the full lift.....it really shouldn't take long....i'll end with your rig , your money, your choice, I'm never going to belittle another member for their build plan.....well if you decide to lower it and slap some lambo doors on it then we might have an issue.....otherwise good luck, and glad to have another 4runner on the forum!