I don't believe jealousy has anything to do with it. Contributions on the other hand...
In all seriousness, the SUVs on the list are car based. How many people actually use their SUV's off-road? I would hedge a bet that less than 10% of all SUV's sold see off-road action, which kind makes the off-road SUV a niche market. I haven't been in the Mazda or in the Honda, but the Acura MDX is very nice, and will tow up to 3500 lbs with ease. One thing about the Acura that is outstanding is the technology and the finish of materials. People spending 35k or more want bells and whistles and want luxury.
Just feel confident that by owning a 4Runner, you already have one of the best built SUV's that can handle nearly anything you encounter, not just the malls.