its all good. its been 16 years since i last bought a vehicle, a toyota, so as you can see im so far behind vehicle devt.. thanks for the update on the plastic grilles...
I'm not certain what your hangup is about the plastic grille and bumper. No one makes a metal bumper anymore. Stamping can't make the complex shapes and the crash structure is big, ugly and metal behind the bumper skin. Personally, I'll take the gapping maw of the SR5/TE because you'll likely just have to replace a grille insert instead of getting a $200 bumper skin and $300 in paint work when you catch a piece of retread.