no 2014 toyotas have the switch anymore. i went to 3 lots and checked: FJ, Sequoia, Tacoma, Tundra, 4runner, none have them.
after weeks of attempting to get some sort of response from toyota, i finally got a call from corporate. it appears that ALL the brochures and digital collateral for 2014 had typos in them. the switch is NO LONGER available, and now toyota claims the switch is no longer needed due to updated due to an updated logic system within the airbag system. supposedly they claim the new system has better detection for potential roll and angles and the side curtain will NOT deploy unless "really needed". i have asked for all of this in writing and am awaiting a response.