Well I got one of those pricey, NLA relays and installed it the other day. I drove about 40 min. and my 4runner still went in and out of 4wd just like it should. Today we took a drive in the mountains for a walk and it would go in and out of 4wd all the way to where I turned off to the deeper snow. Sil fun of bilfitch!! No 4wd. No mechanic or exorcist in sight so we took a short walk. Come back 20min. later and hop in to head back. Yup, works fine now. But only for about half an hour. Is it possible the mechanical part in the transfer case, that presses the button on the 4wd detection switch doesn't make a solid enough pressure, when the case warms up? Just before the 4wd function stopped altogether, the relay could be heard clicking and then buzzing and I could make it change by wiggling the transfer case lever. Anyone else hate intermittent electrical gremlins, especially when you can't duplicate them at home where the tools are?