I don't recall asking for unsolicited financial advice, but I'll entertain it. There aren't any more negatives being reported against me since it was an issue that I've since resolved. My credit is in the process of rebuilding, but it's a long process to do safely and correctly. Meanwhile, my income is more than well suited to affording a car in this price range, and I just learned today that I no longer need a co-signer since I have can make over a $15k down-payment.
So...anyway, back to my actual question, anyone have experience with either of these cars and want to weigh in?
Sorry if I came across a little harsh on that one... I'd had a couple glasses of Friday evening wine..
Relevant to your inquiry: I owned a 2007 335i (E90) since new and drove it for nearly eight years. Here's the deal: it was the best car I've ever owned.
Pics of it before I sold it:
https://goo.gl/photos/CXsjhfgExAZPVopX9
The car simply had no weaknesses. It drove, steered and handled brilliantly. Incredible performance without the harshness; exactly how BMW built their brand before they lost the recipe with the newer F30 models. The interior was classy and very high quality. It was also great on road trips. The turbos laughed off high altitude thin air like nothing.
My car, being an early production unit, had the wastegates go out. This happened way back during the warranty coverage period. The turbos were replaced and I put 60K+ miles on it with zero problems after the fact. And although a lot of people had problems with the high pressure fuel pumps, mine never went out. BMW did the recall and fixed it. These days it's a non-issue. I also had one fuel injector go out; the car ran fine but it did suffer hard starts until this was fixed.
Things that will definitely get you with the E90: The water pump WILL die, there's no escaping it. It's a ~$1K fix. Gaskets will fail and it'll leak oil, especially around the oil filter housing. You'll also get carbon deposits on the intake valves due to direct injection. Most indy shops can media blast the valves clean for you for about $600; figure on doing this every ~40K miles. If you don't get any maintenance history, figure on doing an immediate brake fluid flush and spark plug change.
Here's the thing: The car you see pictured in the link above, at 92K miles, was appraised by Carmax for $8,800. I sold it for $12K. There was nothing wrong with it when I did. It was garaged all its life and had all maintenance records. The guy who bought it off me stole it from me. I still miss it.
The point is this: a new Golf R, while being a pretty awesome car I must admit, is not as good of a car as my old E90 was. It'll depreciate massively in the first couple years. A good, quality E90, however, has already passed the steepest part of the depreciation curve. I say go that route. Skip the extra weight and complexity of the AWD/xi versions and get yourself a set of winter wheels/tires if that's important to you.