I know you said you don't want to do a spacer lift, but I'm pretty happy with my Daystar 2.5/1.5 lift. It cost $130 and I did the installation myself. No need to touch the XREAS, assuming it's still working. Looks good, rides like before, and works well for moderate off-road trails.
Spacer lifts are not for the hard-core offroaders, or for people who drive hard and bottom out their suspension regularly. For the rest of us, they can work well.
If you go as high as 3" up front, you'll likely need aftermarket UCA's to get your caster back to where the vehicle drives well on the highway. That will add another $400 to your cost right there, so stopping at 2-2.5 will help keep costs down.