I'm looking to get some new tires put on in the next week or so and want to know the best route to go in terms of the "rating". I do mostly highway driving but like to hi the trails when I can. What do you guys recommend?
Depends on what you want. Usually, it ends up being the look people want but if you're actually asking about performance, the BFGs will be a compromise on the highway, but will be good and tough on the trail. You're going up in
potential load capacity with the LT tire (any tire described by load range) but substantially down in
practical load capacity unless you add air pressure. It takes 10-15 extra psi to match the load capacity of a passenger (P) tire with the same dimensions. Not a big deal since there's a lot of load reserve in the stock tire spec already, but you don't want to be driving around at 80mph in the summer with 32psi in the BFGs which come in LT only. This all applies regardless of load range.
The load range is only about off-road toughness (which you may not need). It has nothing relevent to do with carrying a load in this size vehicle. The load E has no more carrying capacity than the load C until the load carrying requirements surpass the 50psi max for the load C. In a mid-size SUV, you never get close to that.
If you're set on getting the BFGs, I'd get load C mainly due to the weight. It will be plenty tough. Load E will weigh a ton and affect acceleration, braking, and will tax the ability of the shocks which are made for a much lighter tire.
It all depends on how rough you intend to treat them off-road. I'd guess a good P-metric A/T would work great for you but only you know how you'll use them. The P would be better on pavement, though.