UPDATE:
My order from Shockwarehouse.com was also continually backordered. They were sending me emails every 5 days saying my ship date was 6-2. Then I got an email around 5-30 changing my ship time to 6-9. I wasn't to concerned because it was just a week but then the emails stopped. At this time I also noticed that the same shocks were now coming up on Ebay and Amazon, which hadn't been the case for 3 months prior. I figured that the shocks were starting to trickle back so I called shockwarehouse and was basically told that they didn't know when I would get my shocks. He said if they didn't have the shocks then no one in the US would have them, which I was very skeptical of. He said if I could find them then he would buy them for me AND refund my money. "OOOOOKKKKKK" I said "well there's several auctions on Ebay right now for them that haven't been there for months" He then started to backtrack. He was looking at the auctions as I was talking to him and started picking them apart. "Oh, who's this seller, I've never heard of him. Not sure if I would trust that seller" he said. "Oh DownSouth Motorsports, they're good guys, I've worked with them" he said. Then he said " but those guys don't sell real shocks they take the Bilstein shock and customize them" At this point I felt like I was being flat out lied to. I was never mean or mad during this conversation but it was apparent that this guy was getting tired of me. Then without really asking out of the blue he said angrily "fine, I've got 50 people who'll buy these shocks. I'm refunding your money now" and hung up on me. In my whole life, I've never been treated like that. This guy was a fast talking salesman, It was the same guy who I originally spoke with who sold me in the 1st place. I wish I had gotten his name. He even ripped me because I paid with PayPal, which I had no idea what he was talking about.
Well, to complete the story, I did eventually buy them from DownSouth Motorsports (not before purchasing then having to get a refund from 4wheelparts who basically said the same thing shockwarehouse said). Called Downsouth Motorports first this time and they said they had them in stock and they would ship them out that day. I paid at 12:30pm and they were shipped 12:55pm. WOW! My shocks will be here finally on 6-12. In your face shockwarehouse!!
Just an FYI. Offroadwarehouse also emailed me a little later saying they also had the shocks and would ship the same day. The shocks are out there.