I don't think it's that easy. Multi-mode systems use an ECU not a simple relay. The J-shift cases only have two switches, 4WD and 4L. no neutral switch. Something would have to be done about that. I doubt the ECU would be happy if that switch loop is permanently open or permanently closed. Even more concerning is that the ECU gets feedback from the electric TC actuator and if that is not present I think it would go into fatal confusion, as far as switching the front ADD goes. Blinking Yellow light time.
I don't understand your first sentence. J-shift TCs don't have a center diff and, as I said, there is no relay on the multi-mode truck.
There may be workarounds to all of this, but I'll bet someone would want to kick the rear of the guy who told him it was "almost plug and play."