Thanks for the compliments!
Could not keep the 285s, the KO2s are 275s
Got the headlights from here:
Toyota 4Runner Aftermarket Angel Eye Halo Projector Headlights (HID Xenon)
I got a steal on the paint job- $2500 for a complete color change, including removing the doors, rear hatch, fender flares and hood so that when you open anything and look into the doorjambs or underside of the hood, it is the new color as well instead of the old silver. He gave me a great price because I have brought him a fair amount of business.
Hadn't even thought about the mudflaps, but I appreciate the advice and I think I'll go remove them right now!