I used to have 32" tires and 4.10 gearing if that answers your question.
So it sounds like there really isn't a problem with my 4runner and it's just normal for it to down shift constantly and gear hunt with larger tires. I absolutely loathe down shifting and gear hunting and not being able to maintain speed up hills. I'll start hunting for some 4.88's. That should suit me nicely especially once I put bumpers and skids on.