I've had a somewhat similar coolant loss with my 97 (215K miles). I had a small coolant leak form the rear heater hose lines which is now fixed. I thought that was where my coolant was leaking from (which it was to an extent) but that is all fixed now yet I still have to add coolant every couple months or so.
When I say add, I mean like an inch or so in the reservoir bottle, nothing major. Never found any coolant on the ground but it's winter so I haven't really looked under the engine real hard.
I do not have any noticeable white smoke in the exhaust although it is hard to tell in the winter.
No funny smell in the exhaust and clean oil.
Just for grins, I ordered one of those combustion chamber fluid leak testers (turns blue liquid green or yellow if there is a problem). Should be here in a couple days and I'll report back on what I find.
If I do have a HG leak, it must be a very, very small one.
The one thing that has me a little worried is recently when I start it up, it feels ever so slightly rough for maybe 5 seconds after it has been sitting. It then runs fine.
No overheating (monitoring with ultra gauge) and no other major signs. No CEL either.
If the test fails and I do have a HG issue, I got a spare 99 motor I can swap in but man that will suck. Although I would try using something like blue devil first since the leak would be a very minor one.