My daughter's (mine formerly) 04 Runner, purchased new Halloween of 03, had 175,000 on it last year when she got in a wreck and totaled it. Other ladies fault.
That vehicle was the best vehicle i've owned in my life from a reliability standpoint.
All i ever did was Mobil 1 Syn, every 5000 miles, plugs every 30k, all the major fluids at 95k, along with shocks/struts, brakes at 120k, and they still had alot of pad left.
The only failures i dont blame on the vehicle, the kid submerged it, literally, and shortly after i had to replace an idler pulley, alternator(it melted internally, dripping goo into the AC clutch) and the A/C compressor from melted alternator goo. There was water up to the roofline when they drove into a river, so i blame teenage stupidity not the vehicle design.