** OK I do have to say this much ... joining the service will forever alter your relationship path .. forever. I'm not saying for the worse but it is probably the most impacting decision on a relationship besides having children. You will be deployed for 8-14 months (depending on branch & unit), possibly within your first 6 months of joining, that is a very serious thing.
I served 6 years fully active duty during which I went on two deployments, 9 months and then 7. Trust me it is the same for everyone - it is hard on relationships. Many fool themselves into believing their relationship is special and unique. It is not. Some are better at coping than others but it is still very hard on all parties. Start a new thread - get some answers. Good luck.
I posted this same question over in the 5th Gen Forum and had a mass of responses. Curious as to who is currently serving, has served or is a veteran. If you have a moment, cut and paste the below and add your inputs:
Active/Reserve/Retired:
Branch of Military:
Years Served:
Paygrade:
MOS/Rate:
Currently Stationed:
Why do you want to know?
It's not a matter of why I want to know as much as it being an opportunity for folks to share a common bond with one another and maybe meet up locally to wheel with, share mod ideas, etc. If you don't want to join, no problem, for those who did, good on ya and thanks for serving!
Go Navy!