Reviving an old thread, but I have found Mobile 1 synthetic 75W-90 gear oil to be very friendly to Toyota Diffs that require GL-5.
I have used Mobile 1 gear oil in our AWD Sienna, 4Runner and my old Lexus.
It is half the price of Redline and easy to find locally.
I try to keep the Transmission fluid (Type-IV) fresh by doing a 4 quart drain and fill every other oil change. Its working for me so far.
Just my .02