For what it's worth,
Option 1
Get the Limited. Yah I know it's limited because of <fill in the blank>; however, there are some everyday upsides. You spend most of your time on the road.
1. You get
full time AWD and still have 4Hi & 4Low. It make driving in the weather fun instead of slightly sketchy at times.
2. You can get heated and cooled seats with
real leather.
3. Better handling for everyday use
4. Third row option
5. Push button start
6. Auto on/off headlights
Downsides
1. The fancy suspension is limited in lift unless you remove the whole thing. Then you loose the better road manners.
2. You will need to add the locker, which is still the same as the SR5.
3. Crappy factory tires for off road, like the SR5
4. Lacks a transfer case skid plate, like the SR5
5. Chin spoiler bumper leave limited aftermarket bumper options
Option 2
Buy her something else with a third row like a mini-van and you keep your rig.
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