Here's how it works and you can decide for yourself:
Toyota dealers cannot order from Toyota proper. This is ANY Toyota vehicle from the Yaris to the Land Cruiser.
The dealers order from one of 12 Distributors based on geographic location. The dealers CAN NOT order from any distributor, just the one that services their location.
The distributor can only order specific options from Toyota. For example my local dealer cannot order a 2WD 4Runner from their distributor. Some regions cannot order KDSS equipped 4Runners. Call it dumb or stupid but that is the way it is.
Why is it the way it is? How many 4WD 4Runners are going to be sold in South Florida or 2WD in Minnesota?
Dealers can trade each other though and get what they want.
Lastly the distributor offers options or add ons that are region specific. You can't get a Southeast option package in New York.
I'm not sure I agree here. When I ordered my T4RTE w/KDSS from the dealer (after a ton of factual research and decision making as to what works for ME rather than anyone else here), they ordered it direct from Japan since _I_ chose not to get one out of State or from another dealer. I had my last car for 12 years before I finally stepped into a T4R, so I wanted it exactly as I specified since I would most likely have this thing much longer than my previous ride.
It took 91 days and change to get it produced and delivered, but it was exactly what I was wanting - nothing more, nothing less. If I'm reading your comments correctly, you're telling me I shouldn't have been able to do this?
In any event, to the OP, who cares what anyone else here thinks or suggests. If it's something you feel you want and it will make you happy, get it. If you don't want to pay the additional expense or don't feel it's worth the enhancements, then don't. I'd keep your research fact based rather than opinionated and then decide based on that.
Just my .02.