i am finally getting around to lifting my 2000 t4r 4wd 5spd. i want to get a better lift than just the basic Revtek coil spacers. i have been looking at the 3'' kit w/ spacers, rear OME coils, and diff drop kit and not sure if i needed the one with the diff drop or not? also if the spacers in the front wear the front shocks out faster how do you avoid that? do i need new front coils also ? or is there a better waY? thanks for the advice