Sorry it took so long to post the wiring diagram but here it is...
I already have some of the parts and these are some of the cheapest prices I could find on the ones I don't have yet. I'm also thinking about mounting my PC inside the storage compartment in the cargo area that way I don't have to buy a case (on a budget...

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Do you mind if I use this thread to ask you questions about this time to time as I work on my own setup?
I don't have a problem if you ask questions on this thread but I would suggest browsing the forums here and over at mp3car.com (Rando has some detailed info along with pics of the install on his thread - been a great help for me).
Boot is controlled by you and depends on your setup and what you want. I use a special DC/DC power supply that implements the power sequencing so that the PC boots up a few seconds after I turn the key to ON. When I turn the key to off the supply sends a shutdown signal to the PC and the PC initiates a clean shutdown which in turn turns everything off. If the PC fails to shutdown, the supply will eventually time-out and just kill it to prevent battery drain. I've highly optimized my Windows XP install to get cold boot times down to around 19 seconds -- so yah, there is still some delay but it's not unbearable.
Yea, you can minimize the Windows XP down to about 500MB and boot times roughly about 20-30 seconds. That's not too bad of a wait for your PC to be up and running.
Why would you have to cut the dash? If the HU fits in the glove box, so too will a pc DVD drive. Take a look at some of the laptop sized drives with USB enclosers. They are small.
Never thought about using a USB enclosure DVD-ROM. Maybe this is something I can integrate into my car later on. Besides, the way I have it now, I can buy the touch screen and HU first.
Depending on how you power your carpc, you will or will not need this. If you use a DC/DC supply with integrated shutdown controller, it will take care of proper power sequencing. You may still want a manual override switch -- just in case. I added one into one of the dummy switch inserts in the center console.
I'm planning on buying the OPUS 120W PSU. I saw somewhere that OPUS now makes a 150W. Do you think I 120W is enough for what I want to do or should I try to get the 150W.
True, a HU will be cheaper than buying a PC DVD drive, amplifier, and PC radio solution. On the other hand, an HU in the glove box probably isn't going to fit nicely nor look the best unless you're willing to some fairly heavy modding to that area of your dash. Don't forget you have an airbag above the glove box and also the air filter cleaner is behind there so you'll want to preserve the ability to access that part of your dash without ripping out your system.
I figure I'd get the wiring harness and its normally long enough to wire to the corner of the glove (I'm hoping). Then, I would just use L-shaped brackets to mount the HU (wishful thinking).
Also, I was watching Pimp My Ride (re-run) today and they pimped a 2005 4-Runner with DirecTV and internet. Maybe that's something you might want to think about in the future. But at $3500, I think I can wait til the prices come down a bit.
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