Toyota4Runner said:
You mentioned that you were gonna get the V6, what changed your mind? I am trying to decide myself.
I only started considering the V6 in early January. It was ironic because I had waited 5 months so I could get the '05 V8.
Until I started shopping in late December, I had no idea of the limitation of choice available to me (given the limitation of wanting to get something pretty soon). I decided only 4WD, XREAS, and a desirable color - in that order - were essential and that I'd pick up the first reasonable deal that met those criteria. I'm very happy with the V8. I'm sure I'd be very happy with the V6, as well, especially as I earmarked $1200 for something I wanted and reminded myself it was the "V6 bonus".
With due respect to the many here more qualified to evaluate than I, here's a list of what I'd be considering were I buying today. A couple of things would require investigation.
Advantages.
V6
Conveniently located oil filter.
$1200 savings
2WD option - I've heard tale of compression braking being more stable on long, fast, loose downhills in 2wd, and of steering, in general, being a bit snappier. The former I don't know about. The latter I didn't notice on a quick test.
mileage
lighter - I wonder if the V8s are sprung any differently in front to handle the 200 extra pounds.
V8
Torque
Towing
Full time 4WD - it's often nice to not worry about being in or out.
History of reliability