Glad know one was hurt. These things are amazing. Wife was rear ended by F150 hauling a trailer. Totaled the Ford, $3k damage to the runner but mainly cosmetic hatch and bumper.
Drive a Jeep first. You will go back to Toyota. A few of my camping buddies bought new ones, 2 and 4 doors. Even with upgrades they can't keep up with 4 Runners or Tacomas. New motors are crap. Have not been the same since the inline 4.0 disappeared.
My jaw has just dropped that at a 45-55 mph hit this is all the damage. Needless to say I am shopping for a front bumper. I would do shrock but due to their wait I suppose I will do arb