My girlfriend had a tantrum...

All this talk of bad relationships and fishing seems very familiar, but I just can't put my finger on it.......
 
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Kmvreter said:
We don't need the details of what set this off but I hope it went something like this...
As you were telling her that the relationship was over, you got back into your truck. She followed you and proceeded to rip at your door to get at your throat but she was foiled because you had the sense to lock yourself in. Then she damaged the front panel as you backed away (of course, being careful not to hit her because of the gentleman that you are.) The only reason she couldn't do any more damage was because the T4R is faster than she is. You woke up the next day thinking it's all a bad dream until you see the actual damage in daylight.
I'm not sure how old (or young) you are but do yourself a favour and follow all the advice given above. Been there, done that. Ditch the dream before it becomes a nightmare. You deserve better.

First off, let me say thanks to all who have replied and attempted to sympathize. All of the responses here deserve and get a great deal of gratitude from me. Nothing like the feeling you get from a classy board with members who show another brother some love :)

I'm 39, she's 36, we've been together a little over two years. Kmvreter was close in his assessment. She drove down to my office last Thursday to confront me after I ended things the previous Monday. Long story short, she ripped off her watch and slammed the truck with it, then grabbed mine and stomped it into 5 pieces and whipped those pieces at the truck. Right next door to my office is a travel agency, the guys saw and heard the entire thing. Totally embarassing.

At this point, I am just content to fix it myself and be rid of her. No charges, no restraining orders, no small claims suits, nothing. I'm financially comfortable (I know, that's not the point) but it's much easier to take that road. It's too bad, she was SO hot :)

Thanks again to all.
 
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coolpop said:
It's too bad, she was SO hot :)

uhhh...can i have her number?? Look, i am a really bad fisherman!!:D

On a more serious note, good luck with your repairs.
 
OUCH! I'll bitch slap my gf if she did that! then kick her AZZ to the curb! then I would run over her with the 4R! then call the EMT to hall her azz away . :smash: :goinposta :D
 
come on! just throw it in her a few more times, and do it like a man! no mercy at this point! no relationship, and a damaged 4runner. go for it all! haha. and hell, video it, and send her the only copy, but warn her that there are extra's out there! she will never want another guy again. and from the sounds of it, that is what we all need!

just remember. if they are hott, and still single...they are not right! it just always seems to work that way. atleast you didn't have a pair of panties left in one of your socks for your next gf to find. i had no idea they were there until a buddy of mine tipped me off! sure enough, about 8 months later..the hottest pair she had, tucked up in a sock at the very back of my sock drawer.

actually, just walk away. yeah, just walk away. they are too unpredictable. you never know what you are gonna get. yup. just walk right away.
 
Your a very nice person, I would at least press charges for the damage to your ride, with a temper like that I'd feel bad for the next guy and want to teach her a lesson.

But what goes around comes around, I'd put money on it that in some way she will get into an accident or have her car damaged;):
 
TRD04RUNNER said:
OUCH! I'll bitch slap my gf if she did that! then kick her AZZ to the curb! then I would run over her with the 4R! then call the EMT to hall her azz away . :smash: :goinposta :D

OK, now THAT made me laugh.
 
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coolpop said:
First off, let me say thanks to all who have replied and attempted to sympathize. All of the responses here deserve and get a great deal of gratitude from me. Nothing like the feeling you get from a classy board with members who show another brother some love :)

I'm 39, she's 36, we've been together a little over two years. Kmvreter was close in his assessment. She drove down to my office last Thursday to confront me after I ended things the previous Monday. Long story short, she ripped off her watch and slammed the truck with it, then grabbed mine and stomped it into 5 pieces and whipped those pieces at the truck. Right next door to my office is a travel agency, the guys saw and heard the entire thing. Totally embarassing.

At this point, I am just content to fix it myself and be rid of her. No charges, no restraining orders, no small claims suits, nothing. I'm financially comfortable (I know, that's not the point) but it's much easier to take that road. It's too bad, she was SO hot :)

Thanks again to all.

Good Choice!!!
 
Sorry to here about the damage to your truck. Your ex obviously never watched the movie "Christine". Everybody knows if you purposely damage someone elses car it will fix itself, hunt you down and take you out :D . In all honesty though I think you made the right choice. If she was crazy enough to do that then who knows what length she would go to when she was served court papers.
 
Dude, if my girlfriend did that to my runner she'd be out like the fat kid in dodgeball!

Now my wife, that is a different story...goes along with MY decision with the vows! But I chose wisely.

CV
 
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coolpop said:
Long story short, she ripped off her watch and slammed the truck with it, then grabbed mine and stomped it into 5 pieces and whipped those pieces at the truck.

Ouch! if my GF were to pull a stunt like that not only would she be out the money for the repairs for the truck, but she'd owe me a few thousand for my watch too.

sorry to hear about the mess!
 
sorry to hear about your problem....but IMO you got off easy. In this world nowadays....you never know what crazy Ex's (boyfriends and girlfriends) would do. Just be thankful you still have your head and I would suggest making sure she doesn't come back.
 
man...

dude, you know if you were to do that, the chick would have you arrested, and file all sorts of charges against you. WE GOTTA STOP LETTING GIRLS PICK ON US! stick up for yourself man.
 
Look at it this way...

She must have thrown her tantrum from her complete shock and anger from being tossed out and she could not, just could not, accept not being able to be with such a well hung stallion, great looking, stud muffin who could curl her toe nails with each screaming orgasmic explosion....and there were multiples, right? So her tantrum was completely understandable...no woman in her right mind could live without your kama sutra-like ability to satisfy her.......understandable...:boink
 
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olliebear said:
She must have thrown her tantrum from her complete shock and anger from being tossed out and she could not, just could not, accept not being able to be with such a well hung stallion, great looking, stud muffin who could curl her toe nails with each screaming orgasmic explosion....and there were multiples, right? So her tantrum was completely understandable...no woman in her right mind could live without your kama sutra-like ability to satisfy her.......understandable...:boink

you sure you're not Chef from South Park?:D :D

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olliebear said:
She must have thrown her tantrum from her complete shock and anger from being tossed out and she could not, just could not, accept not being able to be with such a well hung stallion, great looking, stud muffin who could curl her toe nails with each screaming orgasmic explosion....and there were multiples, right? So her tantrum was completely understandable...no woman in her right mind could live without your kama sutra-like ability to satisfy her.......understandable...:boink

Well...you know...I didn't want to come right out and just say that...:D

In all seriousness, now that the initial shock has worn off, I am starting to get pissed every time I see those damn marks on my truck. But, being the mature one, I will simply have it fixed and that will be that. My friend has assured me that absolutely no one will be able to tell, and he's probably right - I've seen his work on many other Toyotas and it's great.

And chillwihll is right - had the tables been turned my ass would still be in jail.
 
did she live with you, she probably had a great thing going and now she's just more pissed at herself for loosing the guy who pays her bills;):
 
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coolpop said:
My friend has assured me that absolutely no one will be able to tell,

Well, if you ever trade in your 4runner in the future to a dealership, then the dealership will be able to tell easily. No matter how good your friend is. So, resale value may go down.

Your ex-gf just can't stand the thought of having some other girl riding shotgun in your 4runner!:D
 
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Thai said:
Well, if you ever trade in your 4runner in the future to a dealership, then the dealership will be able to tell easily. No matter how good your friend is. So, resale value may go down.

Your ex-gf just can't stand the thought of having some other girl riding shotgun in your 4runner!:D

yeah thats sucks, the dealerships use this weird laser machine that can tell if the paint is the same all over, I saw some guy bring in a Eclass and the salesman was like you had the entire passenger side repainted and the guy was like how did you know it looks perfect:)
 

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