Kraeken
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I need to vent, and ask if I'm overreacting. Tonight I got into a huge argument with my wife. She is a critical care nurse in a busy MICU here in NY. Her unit (and the hospital in general) is poorly managed. Anyway, she had told me a story last year about a med student who's carelessness caused a nurse to be stuck by a dirty needle. This nurse went through seven months of heavy preventative medication and emotional turmoil. The med student who caused it was basically like "oops, sorry. You should be more careful." Nothing happened to the student, no talk, no reprimand, nothing. At the time my wife didn't understand my rage upon hearing this. What caused me to flip out tonight was that my wife said its just a matter of time before she gets stuck, as it happens a lot. I flipped my sh!t when she said this. She doesn't understand my take on this, and I certainly don't understand hers.
I was an EMT in the NYC 911 system for sixteen years, and have been a NYC fireman for fourteen. In my line of work, getting stuck with a needle is one of the worst things that can happen in a medical setting, and causing someone to get stuck is one of the worst things you can do. I've heard of people getting fired for it. There is absolutely no reason, none at all, to get stuck with a needle, ever. This is the attitude of people who use needles in the back of a moving vehicle. The attitude should apply a hundredfold in a controlled hospital setting. Why do hospital people have such a casual fricking attitude about it?
I even asked my friend (and my ex- EMS partner) who was a medic, thinking maybe I'm overreacting, and he agreed with me, and said he had the same argument with his wife, who is also a nurse. My uncle, who is a retired nurse, agreed that a needlestick is very serious but didn't agree that you should take an aluminum baseball bat and knock the teeth out of the person who caused you to get stuck.
I don't get the hospital attitude. There is no excuse for it, and apparently its a huge problem. People don't even like reporting needlestick injuries! I don't get it, and I don't know how to get my wife to see my point of view.
Is my opinion the same as all other EMS workers, or is there something wrong with us out here? Why is everyone else so flippant about it?
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I was an EMT in the NYC 911 system for sixteen years, and have been a NYC fireman for fourteen. In my line of work, getting stuck with a needle is one of the worst things that can happen in a medical setting, and causing someone to get stuck is one of the worst things you can do. I've heard of people getting fired for it. There is absolutely no reason, none at all, to get stuck with a needle, ever. This is the attitude of people who use needles in the back of a moving vehicle. The attitude should apply a hundredfold in a controlled hospital setting. Why do hospital people have such a casual fricking attitude about it?
I even asked my friend (and my ex- EMS partner) who was a medic, thinking maybe I'm overreacting, and he agreed with me, and said he had the same argument with his wife, who is also a nurse. My uncle, who is a retired nurse, agreed that a needlestick is very serious but didn't agree that you should take an aluminum baseball bat and knock the teeth out of the person who caused you to get stuck.
I don't get the hospital attitude. There is no excuse for it, and apparently its a huge problem. People don't even like reporting needlestick injuries! I don't get it, and I don't know how to get my wife to see my point of view.
Is my opinion the same as all other EMS workers, or is there something wrong with us out here? Why is everyone else so flippant about it?
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