I am probably the only woman on this site so here goes...I have an 04 T4R Sport Ed. V8/4WD. I have been educating myself and would like some advice. I am finally ready to do some upgrades to my Runr after many years off road in a UTV. I have asked two different off road places the best set up for my truck and no one wants to give it a shot. I still want it to be the fantastic daily driver , with decent off road capabilities. I am a desert, dune, MOab rider. I would like to keep the stock 17" rims. The truck has 85K miles. LIft? Spacers? Couils? Billstiens? EMU? replacing XREAS? Any suggestions? Thanks, Becky