Looking at my 07 V6, the pan appears it would use a cork or cork neoprene combo flat vs neoprene in a grove. Check your manual etc to see if you need to ping the pan outward at bolt holes due to being distorted inward from tightening over the years. This is Old School but it might still apply to get a good seal. I am still surprised that pan gasket is leaking at that mileage. Has the engine ever been extremely hot or could this be from slow off-road conditions??
Pics I took while inspecting my new to me 07 V6 2WD with 43,000 mi appears this s/n be a bad job but I’m sure a 4WD is different. What oil filter and oil have you used over the years? Changing the oil and filter at 2,000 mi this week due to the 5,000/6mo to stay in the Ext Warr guidelines will be my task. Good luck! jow