If you're lifting your 4runner, then the sky is the limit! I would get Goodyear Wrangler SA or BFG AT KO (if it comes in that size). Goodyear SA has the "snowflake" symbol which means that it will do well in severe winter conditiions. You won't need snowchains. Both BFG AT KO and Goodyear SA have this severe winter symbol. Bridgestone Dueler REVO does NOT have this symbol. The GY tread looks similar to REVO, which means that it will likely match REVO's on-road ride.
For your needs, i think that you will be happy with Goodyear Wrangler SA or BFG AT KO. Since you're not a heavy off-roader, i would get the Wrangler SA due to it's supposedly better on-road characteristics as compared to BFG AT KO.
Bridgestone Dueler REVO is excellent on-road and in foul weather. It will also wear better than the two AT tires above...longer life traction due to it's dual layer compound. But, compare to the two above, it lacks the strong sidewall of BFG AT KO's triple plies and Goodyear Wrangler SA's "Durawall." In addition, it does not have the snowflake symbol that snowbirds would need.
Goodyear Wrangler SA:
- Very good on-road, excellent off-road, snowflake symbol, probably good wear rating
- Very expensive, unknown reliability due to being a brandnew model
BFG AT KO:
- Good on-road, super off-road (relative to other AT tires), snowflake symbol, most proven AT tire, all of it's selections are LT rated, quiet on-road (at least the first half of life)
- Very expensive, Frenchie

D), may get noisy with wear (as claimed by a few owner on Tirerack), may not be as good in rain as other tires, probably the lowest tire wear of the three (depend on use)
Bridgestone Dueler REVO:
- Excellent on-road, good off-road, long consistent wear (dual compound), relatively cheap, reliable
- Relatively weak sidewall (compare to the two above), no snowflake symbol, not as good off-road as the other two
Thai.