I agree about the filter. I think a lot of people overlook or just dismiss the filter. I have noticed that my oil will stay clean looking right up to about 5—7,000 miles and then it turns dark. It's not a gradual darkening of the oil like one might assume as the oil used more — it's almost like a switch is flipped and the oil turns.
My only thoughts on why this is is that it's the oil filter reaching its capacity to filter effectively and all the crap starts to bypass the filter and murk up the oil. Now I avoid this and change the oil/filter before it turns.
I have made the switch to Quaker State Ultimate Durability full synthetic 5w20 with a D3 filter every 5,000 miles now. I have no plans to extend the OCI either.
My father in-law bought a late 90s Dodge Dakota pickup not long ago. I pulled the dipstick on it and the oil looked like black gelatinous ink.
Not surprisingly, the engine died the same day he bought it and it has been in the shop ever since. I don't know what he was thinking buying a truck that had oil that looked as if it had gone 25,000 miles.
I'm a firm believer these days of changing oil on time and using the best oil & filter you can afford.
And for those who are afraid of full synthetic oil in a high mileage engine, I have over 400k on my engine — and my truck loves full synthetic.