Well I've fixed it, wasn't continuity at all though. Late last night I was doing some thinking and remembered that my washer fluid tank was replaced after my wreck. Knowing how "great" the body shop was I figured I'd check one last thing: Making sure the rear pump was actually where the pump was supposed to be. It wasn't.
This morning I went out and ran the front washers and felt the pump that I had replaced that is supposed to be for the rears. It moved. So, that meant that the rear pump was actually on the front of the 4runner, which changes everything.
I went around to the front and started looking at the pump for anything obvious, which there was.
Both of the wires for the pump had become brittle and cracked, and one of them had fallen clean off the four pin connector for the washer fluid pumps.
Bingo!
I spliced the blue wires (passenger pump wires) together with some extra wire for longevity, wrapped it and zip tied it back to the one for the drivers side.
rears work like a charm now, and I feel like an idiot for replacing everything else when it was so simple, but live and learn I suppose.
Thanks for the help everyone!